A Family of Four, Three Sagittarians: Forgive Our Innate Love for Freedom
In our family of four, three of us are Sagittarians—myself, my younger brother, and our father—while our mother is a Scorpio. This unique astrological combination turns our household into a daily comedy show, filled with unrestrained laughter, lighthearted teasing, and boundless joy.
The Essence of Sagittarius
Sagittarius, born between November 23 and December 21, is the ninth sign of the zodiac, situated between Scorpio and Capricorn. Symbolized by an arrow pointing upward, it heralds the arrival of winter. Sagittarians are known for their candidness, generosity, and authenticity. They value cultural enrichment, cherish friendships, and above all, revere freedom.
The Sagittarius Father: A Beacon of Optimism and Freedom
Generous and Optimistic
My father is the epitome of honesty and sincerity. He often reminds us that “misfortune can be a blessing in disguise”—not by seeking hardship, but by reframing challenges as opportunities. Around the year 2000, he seized an opportunity to start a garment factory. What began with fewer than 10 employees grew to over 50. Just as we began to feel a hint of pride, his overly trusting nature led to financial struggles. He prioritized fulfilling orders and treating suppliers fairly but struggled to collect payments from clients. Rather than becoming embittered, he embraced life with resilience, working tirelessly alongside my mother to repay debts while maintaining his signature optimism.
Freedom Given and Boundaries Set
Unlike typical parents who micromanage academics, my father granted us immense independence. I changed schools four times during elementary school due to their work, and my grades fluctuated—yet he never pressured me. When I sought help with homework, he encouraged independent thinking: “Figure it out yourself. Think harder.” This approach fostered self-reliance but sometimes left me feeling adrift. In middle school, when exclusion by peers left me in tears, he listened quietly. He allowed adventures like impromptu picnics but drew the line at overnight trips, stepping in firmly when necessary. His parenting balanced freedom with guidance, ensuring we never strayed too far.
Ever Youthful at Heart
At age eleven, I adopted a cat that quickly became the family’s second-in-command—after Dad. This feline claimed his favorite chair, vacating it only for my father. Despite traditional views on gender roles, Dad devotedly bought fish from the market and prepared homemade meals for the cat, even chatting with it privately. Now a grandfather, he retains that childlike wonder, finding joy and humor in everyday life.
The Scorpio Mother: A Force of Nature
Ruled by Pluto, planet of the underworld, Scorpios are intense, passionate, and magnetic. They possess boundless energy, determination, and a deeply strategic mind.
Boundless Energy
While Dad practiced relaxed governance, Mom was the household’s dynamo. She managed everything flawlessly—maintaining a pristine home, nurturing relationships, and multitasking effortlessly. Recently, she hosted seven family members, including four young children, for ten days, orchestrating engaging activities daily. Her energy and fearlessness are awe-inspiring.
Wisdom, Warmth, and Insight
Mom attracts admirers of all ages—peers, elders, and even my friends—thanks to her exceptional listening skills and empathetic wisdom. People confide in her because she offers thoughtful, uplifting advice without judgment.
The Freedom-Loving Siblings
As Sagittarians, my brother and I prioritized inner exploration over outward appearances, chasing poetry and adventure.
Independent Explorers
Before marriage, I spent most of my income on budget travel—journeying through Inner Mongolia, Tibet, and China’s northeastern provinces, even hitchhiking on freight trucks from Guangzhou to Shenyang. My brother embarked on even bolder quests, backpacking without money from Fujian to Jiangxi and beyond. Our parents worried but ultimately respected our need for autonomy.
Jacks of All Trades
We dabbled in countless hobbies, often starting with fervor but rarely achieving mastery. Yet our parents encouraged every endeavor, with Dad often saying, “Life is full of possibilities—just try.”
A Constellation of Love and Freedom
Whether due to astrological traits or upbringing, our family’s blend of freedom and principles shaped us into resilient, independent adults. We may not be conventionally successful, but we are content, optimistic, and true to ourselves.
What’s your family’s astrological mix? Share your stories! In my next chapter, I’ll explore the dynamic between my Gemini son, Leo daughters, and Scorpio husband. Stay tuned!
